We're planning a vow renewal celebration for the whole family and plan not to serve alcohol since there will be children present.

Q. How Can We Plan Ahead for Guests With Special Needs? A. If you know that you will have guests with special needs attending your vow renewal, be sure to […]

Q. How do we avoid the expense of no-show guests? A. First, make sure you understand your caterer or venue’s policy on when the head count must be provided and […]

Q. Can you uninvite a guest? A. Yes, if you plan on completely terminating your relationship with them and are ok with having them badmouth you to everyone. Otherwise, no.  […]

Q. Do you have to invite your boss? A. You are under no obligation to invite your boss, or anyone else, to your vow renewal that you don’t to attend. […]

Q. How do I address feuding family members prior to our vow renewal? A. If it’s important to the two of you to have all of your family present at […]

Q. Do we need to invite everyone in our family even if we don’t speak to some of them? We have a long-standing feud with my husband’s brother and his […]

Q. Are Children Automatically Included in an Invitation? A. Invitations should be addressed to all invitees on the outer envelope.  For example, if the invitation is addressed to Mr. and […]

Just because you are best friends with the couple, doesn’t mean sending your RSVP by text message or broadcasting the details of their vow renewal invitation to the world is […]

Q. Is it okay to mix our families and friends at tables? A. Mix and match away! It might be more interesting for your guests if you base your seating […]