The Hand Ceremony

The Hand Ceremony

Meaning – This ceremony emphasizes the work the couple has done and will do together to build their life and support each other

Time – about 3 to 5 minutes

Supplies – nothing; the couple will only join hands

Placement – The Hand Ceremony is done before the Ring Ceremony.

Spoken by the Officiant

With our hands, we make and affect the things that surround us and shape our lives. They can be considered a representation of who we are through what we choose to do. In any relationship, our actions speak volumes. Words are not enough to bind two people together. Their actions and, thus, their hands, bind them together as well.

_____ and _____, Please take each other’s hands and together bring them upward near your hearts.  Now, look at each other’s hands for a moment, as we reflect on the gift that they are to you.

These are the hands of your best friend, experienced and strong and full of love for you, which are holding yours as you renew your promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever.

These are the hands that work along side yours as together you build your future.

These are the hands that have passionately loved and cherished you through the years, and with the slightest touch comfort, you like no other.

These are the hands that hold you when fear or grief temporarily comes your way.

These are the hands that have countless times wiped the tears from your eyes, tears of sorrow and tears of joy.

These are the hands that tenderly hold your children.

These are the hands that give you support and encouragement to pursue your dreams.

These are the hands that hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times.

These are the hands that give you strength when you need it.

These are the hands that have lifted your chin and brushed your cheek as they raised your face to look into eyes that are ever filled with overwhelming love for you.

And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.

_____, as an acknowledgment of this gift please gently kiss _____’s hands. _____ also as an acknowledgment of this gift please gently kiss _____’s hands.