How to Pick a Second Honeymoon Destination

10 Tips to Help Narrow It Down

With so many exotic and classic destinations to choose from, selecting the perfect second honeymoon location is no easy task for most couples. Over the years, you may have compiled a bucket list of places you would like to visit someday, which should definitely make your shortlist of options. Plus, there are countless romantic beaches, exciting cities, and gorgeous mountains all around the world to choose from. If you’re wondering how to pick the perfect second honeymoon destination, you’re most definitely not alone. It can be a complicated decision, especially in the midst of planning your vow renewal. Giving yourselves a cutoff date for your second honeymoon destination decision at least two to 3 months before your vow renewal. That way, you can focus on the other aspects of planning your vow renewal.

Remember, picking a second honeymoon destination should be a reflection of who you are as a couple today. What might have been your dream honeymoon destination when you got married might not appeal today. Make time to discuss your ideas together and think outside of your normal comfort zone. This is the perfect time to take a trip of a lifetime!

Whether you’re looking for a honeymoon that’s quiet and intimate or packed with adventure, here are 11 expert tips on how to pick the perfect second honeymoon destination.

1. Set your budget and only consider destinations and trips that fit within that budget

Unless you’re amongst the very fortunate, you’re going to need to work with a budget for your second honeymoon. Be realistic about how much you want to spend. There’s no sense stressing yourselves out by planning something that is beyond your current means. As you look at the expenses you will need to cover, play it safe and over budget. It’s always better to end up under budget than vice versa.

2. Think about the type of scenery you’d most like to see

Your scenery options include modern city, beach, old-world, island, vineyard and winery, foodie, culture, adventure, safari, backpacking, road trip, ski resort, theme park, cruise, give-back, luxury, or hobby.  You’ll also want to look at the geography itself.

3. Consider the type of atmosphere you want

Along with the kind of scenery you most want to see, you’ll want to factor in the type of atmosphere you’re looking for while enjoying that scenery.

What words come to mind when you think of the perfect second honeymoon –  relaxing, serene, historic, rustic, quiet, restful, soothing, cozy, majestic, remote, friendly, romantic, enchanting, quaint, luxurious, exclusive, chic, modern, family, party, action-packed, exciting, bustling, or adventurous?

Talk it over as a couple, and then look into locations that are in line with the type of atmosphere you want.

4. Think about the weather

The weather can have a significant impact on your choice of destination. Start by checking past weather trends for the month you are planning on taking your second honeymoon. If skiing at a destination resort is at the top of your wish list, you’re going to want to avoid going during that location’s warm season. On the other hand, if you don’t mind a bit of snow or an occasional shower, traveling to many popular destinations, like historic cities, in the off-season can save you lots of money. Either way, be sure to factor in the typical weather for each of your potential second honeymoon destinations.

5. Keep current on what’s happening in the world

The world is in a constant state of change, so you’ll want to check the travel advisories for your list of potential destinations before planning a trip abroad. Research the location you have your heart set on romancing in to make sure you are aware of any safety and security risks. You’ll also want to find out what the current health advisories are, especially if you’re planning to travel to a third-world country.

6. Look for hidden gems

It’s easy to put the traditional list of vacation spots on your possibilities list. Still, being that it’s your second honeymoon, this is your opportunity to think outside the box.  Considering choices that aren’t so obvious is perfect, particularly if you’d like to avoid the crowds at popular destinations.  Perhaps a destination such as Mancora, Culebra, Guacalito De La Isla, Squamish, Lofoten Archipelago, Madagascar, Tikal, Principe, the Faroe Islands, Caye Caulker, Sao Tome, or The Himalayan Kingdom of Ladakh has exactly what you’re looking for? Do your research on domestic and international destinations to discover your own second honeymoon hidden gems.

7. Narrow down your options

Once you’ve defined the key elements you’re both looking for in a second honeymoon, make a list of the top two to five destinations that meet your criteria. You’ll also need to decide if you want to spend your entire time in one location or if you would prefer to see as many sights and cities as you can. With your shortlist of destinations in hand, it’s time to start researching specific hotels, resorts, and vacation packages for each of them. You can do your research online or work with a travel agent to find the best values for your money.

8. Read travel blogs to explore possible itineraries

Online travel blogs offer a treasure chest of possible itineraries for virtually every destination. You’re sure to find a travel itinerary for each of your potential destinations that matches up with your scenery, atmosphere, and budget. This is an easy way to take the hassle out of figuring out where to stay, what to do, where to eat, and what not to miss for each destination.

9. Factor in out-of-pocket costs

You’ll want to make sure you understand all of the possible out-of-pocket costs. Additional out-of-pocket expenses may include food and drinks in airports, tips, wifi, and extra mobile phone costs while traveling.

All-inclusive packages tend to include all of your basic food, drinks, activities, and tips in the package price, yet may require additional fees for drink upgrades and special activities.

If you’re not staying at an all-inclusive, it’s essential to check out local transportation, restaurant, and activity costs. These costs can add up quickly and be way more than you expected. In fact, they can be so significant that they far exceed your airfare and hotel costs and can make your total trip costs exceed your budget.

10. Decide how long you want to be gone and make sure you can get the time off

You’ll want to plan enough time to enjoy your second honeymoon destination(s) and do the activities you wish to, yet you don’t want your trip to be too long. You also don’t want to be rushed, so make sure you plan in enough time to have a solid balance of activities and downtime. Check your work schedules and place your vacation requests as far in advance as possible to ensure your plans go smoothly.