Vow Renewal To Do’s: What to Tackle 1–3 Months Before the Big Day
Vow Renewal To Do’s: What to Tackle 1–3 Months Before the Big Day
The countdown is on! Your vow renewal is just around the corner, and this is when it all starts to feel real. From final fittings to mailing invites and confirming your second honeymoon plans, this ultimate checklist of vow renewal to do’s for 1–3 months out will keep you calm, organized, and totally ready for the big day.
You’ve made it through the major planning milestones—venue booked, vendors chosen, vision clear. Now it’s time to focus on the finishing touches that bring everything together and ensure a smooth, joyful celebration.
This phase is all about execution, confirmations, and gorgeous details. Let’s break it down:
Final Walkthrough: Get the Lay of the Land
- Visit your reception venue with the site manager. Walk through lighting, layout, sound setup, and air circulation. Don’t skip this—small tweaks here can make a big impact on the guest experience.
- Double-check your timeline with your planner or day-of coordinator so you’re aligned on flow.
Lock in Your Look: Decor, Florals & Linens
- Choose linens, place settings, and reception decor.
Coordinate colors, textures, and layout with your florist, caterer, and reception manager to make sure everything feels cohesive and elevated. - Finalize your centerpieces, table numbers, signage, and any extra styling elements.
All About the Attire
- If you ordered a custom gown or suit, now’s the time for final fittings. Bring shoes and undergarments for a perfect fit.
- Haven’t bought your outfit yet? Now or never, friend. This is your moment to shine!
- Confirm that your attendants have their attire (and that it fits). Need tailoring or accessories? Get it done now, not in a panic two days before.
Invitations: Time to Send the Magic
- Mail your vow renewal invitations six to eight weeks ahead of the big day.
This gives your guests time to RSVP and make travel plans (especially important if your event falls near a holiday or involves travel). - Don’t forget to include all key details: time, location, dress code, RSVP instructions, and any extra events or fun activities planned.
Second Honeymoon & “Going Away” Glam
- Confirm your second honeymoon reservations and make any final payments. Recheck passport expiration dates if you’re heading abroad.
- Shop for your going-away outfit (even if it’s just a killer airport look). This is your just-recommitted-and-feeling-fabulous moment—own it.
Pamper & Prepare
- Book hair, makeup, spa, and nail appointments. If possible, do a hair/makeup trial now if you haven’t already.
- Schedule time for a couples massage or solo pampering—you deserve it!
Check-In Time
- Reconfirm all vendors: caterer, florist, photographer, musician/DJ, rental company, officiant.
Make sure they have your timeline, delivery times, and venue address. - If you’re DIYing anything (like signage, favors, or photo booth props), make a list of what’s left to make or buy—and chip away at it weekly.
Bonus: Fast-Trackers & Last-Minute Planners
Planning a vow renewal on a tight timeline? Be sure to check out our other to-do lists:
You’ve still got time—and we’ve got your back.
Final Thoughts
These final months are where the magic takes shape. With this list of vow renewal to do’s, you’ll stay organized, confident, and actually enjoy the process instead of racing the clock.
Remember, this isn’t a production—it’s a celebration of your journey together. So take a deep breath, check off that list, and savor every moment leading up to your big “I still do.”
